Author: Carol Pages, Pages Family Law.
At Pages Family Law, We Do Family Law Differently
When you’re navigating separation, divorce, or a family law dispute, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Misconceptions about the legal process only add to the stress. Below, we share three common myths about family law in Australia – and explain our practical, client-first approach to resolving your property and parenting matters.
Myth 1: You Need an Aggressive Divorce Lawyer to Get Results
The truth: Aggression rarely helps – and often harms.
Some family lawyers default to a combative style: a string of aggressive letters, unrealistic demands with tight deadlines, and threats of court. This may feel like action, but it rarely leads to genuine progress.
In fact, this approach often:
- ● Escalates conflict between separating parties
- ● Increases legal fees
- ● Prolongs your matter
- ● Leaves you emotionally and financially drained
At Pages Family Law, we believe in standing up for your rights – without unnecessary conflict. We provide clear advice on your legal entitlements, responsibilities, and options. Our goal is to help you move forward with confidence and avoid a ‘fight-sized’ bill.
Myth 2: If You Hire a Lawyer, You’ll End Up in Court
The truth: A good family lawyer helps you avoid court – not rush into it.
We’re trained and experienced in running matters in the Family Court. But we also know that most people want to resolve their matter privately, and we help our clients do exactly that.
Here’s how we keep you out of court where possible:
- ● We give you realistic advice on the likely outcome of your case
- ● We work with you to plan a tailored negotiation strategy
- ● We help you understand settlement options and future planning
- ● We connect you with trusted professionals – financial advisors, accountants, mortgage brokers – for a well-rounded solution
If court becomes necessary (e.g. if the other party won’t respond or their offers are far from fair), we guide you through the process strategically. Even then, most family law cases resolve well before a final hearing.
📊 At the time of writing, only 10.5% of our active matters are in litigation before the Court.
Myth 3: Only the Lawyers Win in Divorce
The truth: Resolution is a win – and it’s yours.
Yes, legal fees can add up, especially with prolonged disputes. But resolution doesn’t need to be expensive. Our role is to help you:
- ● Understand your rights and responsibilities
- ● Choose the best way forward
- ● Keep legal costs proportionate and transparent
We provide:
- ● Clear cost estimates
- ● Itemised invoices
- ● Practical advice to help you minimise costs
- ● Regular communication so there are no surprises
We know that our happiest clients are those who resolve their property and parenting matters and move on with their lives. We see it in the referrals they send – friends, family and colleagues who need support through separation too.
A Smarter, Calmer Approach to Separation
At Pages Family Law, we work to resolve your family law matter efficiently, respectfully, and strategically. Whether you’re working through a parenting plan, dividing property, or responding to legal letters, our team will guide you every step of the way.
✅ Ready to move forward? Contact us for clear, personalised advice about your separation or divorce.
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The content of this article is provided for information purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. We recommend that you seek legal advice relevant to your own circumstances and we would be happy to assist you.
Carol Pages is the Principal of Pages Family Law and an Accredited Specialist in Family Law and a Nationally Accredited Mediator. If you would like advice about your own separation, please contact Pages Family Law at info@pagesfamilylaw.com.au or on 03 9121 8077 or book a 15 minute free discovery call via our website.
